When something is perceived to be lacking, there's one unequivocal way to create the scanty something-something. This tricky little paradox is the only way.
Whatever you sense to be missing is the exact thing you’re not bringing.
This is true in all relationships: your relationship with your partner, the way you relate to your job, where you are in relation to your family, your money, your goals, your chores, your weight, your spirit, your friends, your doggie, your very being. Because the only way to anything is from it.
Where there is no energy, be energetic...
Where there is no understanding, understand...
Where there is no love, bring your most loving self...